Unspoken Thoughts
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Play2 days off. Just gonna lay on the couch and watch Bates Motel and other various television shows.
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Check out some photos of Paramore performing at the Hammerstein Ballroom in NYC last week!
photos by Amy Willard
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“Jangan menunda-nunda sesuatu yang penting, karena kalau hilang, bisa hilang selamanya. Yang ada hanya penyesalan yang akan hadir selamanya.”
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So yesterday was my birthday. Nothing happened yesterday, no more cakes, no more pictures taken...
3 more days and I’m ready (enough). Bismillah.. 😇✈ #instagram #indonesia
I got unexpected surprise last night, from my beloved dear best friends! I don’t expect it at all, like I said, it’s not the only thing I think about now. Many thoughts come inside my head. Then.. They came. Since I don’t expect it, this surprise was really a surprise!! :))
Speechless. Can’t say anything. I love you all, to the moon, spinning around, and never back <3
So yesterday was my birthday. Nothing happened yesterday, no more cakes, no more pictures taken yesterday like any other years ago, nothing. Only him, came to my house, chit chat together while he’s waiting until 00.00 o’clock and said happy birthday to me :)) I’m happy enough! This is more than enough. And I realize, I’m 23 years old now and I’m thinking about something different rather than 4 years ago. I’m a bride to be, a wife to be.
It’s less than a week now until May 26th 2013. The day when he will do Mitsaqan Ghaliza, to be a husband, to be a leader in our family, to bear the sins of his wife and children, to earn a living, to take a responsibility of me and our children in shaa Allah.
And me, I’ll start to be a wife, a mother (aamiin), to serve him and our children, to be a helping hand for him, to be a shoulder to lean on when he gets tired after doing a work hard all day long, to cook (I still can’t cook for God’s sake! but I will one day, I promise!), to be a listener, to calm him down, to be his partner in our life, to share everything with him, in shaa Allah.
Can I? I’m still childish until now. I mean, my behavior. I get angry easily, though it’s not as bad as what I did years ago. I’m a bit fussy. I’m not matronly yet. Will he understand it? Will he still guide me, to be the very best wife for him.. I’m sure he will. There’s no doubt about it.
I start counting the days from now on. Keep praying, only God can protect everything we’ve been through now. I surrender, for what’s best for me, my life, and his.
Semoga ia baik untuk urusan dunia dan akhirat. Aamiin.
Dear Icha,
I was so shocked when you tell me that you were getting married. I guess you already know that by how many “OMG” I sent you via bbm, haha. The second I knew you were getting married, I told myself that I should write you a letter. I’m getting used to writing a letter when something happens in your life (eaaaa, wth) haha. So please, mind my ugly handwriting. I haven’t wrote anything in a long time. Anyway, I don’t know what to write cause I’ve probably told you anything. Hmm.. Let me see, I remember when I met you for the first time it wasn’t pleasant, but then, I got to know you and you were ok (I’m not gonna say you are great :p) I guess we tend to have an unpleasant impression with people who’s gonna be very close to us, I don’t know. Then I started to listen to you stories about anything, especially about your love life. And then, everything seems to move very fast that you decided to tie the knot with a man that I’m not very familiar with. Well, that’s not really important about how familiar I am with him, but you know what I mean, right?
Dear Icha,
I know, I was acting so childish by being mad at you (just cause you’re getting married). I was so sad by my own thought that you were going to leave. I mean, it’s freaking marriage, for God’s sake?! I felt that he’s taking you away from us (yep, I’m protective) but then I realize that this is your decision and hopefully this is what’s best for you, so, I kinda accept the idea of “people will eventually leave” and have their own life. But I know that you won’t leave us. So with this, I want to wish you to have a good and supportive family that you’ll form with your husband. Semoga bisa menjadi istri soleha untuk Kak Zaldi, keluarga yang dibangun bisa menjadi sakinah, mawaddah, warahmah, semoga pernikahan ini bisa membuka pintu-pintu yang sebelumnya tertutup. Semoga bisa menyediakan surga dibawah telapak kakinya Icha untuk anak-anak kalian kelak. I wish you nothing, but the very best.
Love, Fida xx
Bandung, 170413
So this is the letter Fida gave to me yesterday :”
Thank you for this letter Dang. Aamiin for all you wishes and hopes, my dear Fida. Semoga semua doanya bisa dikabulkan sama Allah untuk aku dan kau jugo. Aamiin ya rabbal alamin. I love you to the moon, spinning around, and never back xoxo
Mohon doanya semuanya :” #weddinginvitation #instagram #indonesia
hellofida Asks:
farinsameika Said:
first of all, mbak fida kurang ajar ya itu kakak bukan oom! —” hahaha aduuuh mbak fida. in shaa Allah masih. ini kan mau nikah loh mbak fida bukan mau musuhan sama mbaknya. lagian ntar jangan2 malah aku ya yang cerita random. ladenin ya mbaknya. hahahaha. kalo misalnya kamu dilempar bola petanque aku deh yg jadi tamengnya :” doain ya mbak fida, semoga semuanya berjalan lancar, dimudahkan, dan dilindungi sm Allah SWT. aamiin. I love you to the moon and never back #terFida
Seserahan 10 Maret 2013 #engagement #songket #instagram #indonesia
Falla Adinda
Tapi kamu bukan bencana, sayang. Two weeks to go. Here we come..
Al-Insyirah (QS 94)
“Dengan nama Allah Yang Maha Pengasih, Maha Penyayang.
1. Bukankah Kami telah Melapangkan dadamu (Muhammad)?
2. dan Kami pun telah Menurunkan bebanmu darimu,
3. yang memberatkan punggungmu,
4. dan Kami Tinggikan sebutan (nama)mu bagimu.
5. Maka sesungguhnya bersama kesulitan ada kemudahan,
6. sesungguhnya bersama kesulitan ada kemudahan.
7. Maka apabila engkau telah selesai (dari sesuatu urusan), tetaplah bekerja keras (untuk urusan yg lain),
8. dan hanya kepda Tuhan-mulah engkau berharap. – View on Path.
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Hahahaha. Lucuuuuuuuuuu!
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Hari ini dikantor nggak tau kenapa si mbak-mbak pada kerajingan pengen foto-foto. Karena saya emang sedikit banci foto jadi ya ikut dengan semangat. Kalo dikantor saya paling muda, suka dibilang anak kecil karena kelakukan juga bodor. Tapi dengan gitu saya ngerasa nyaman, ngerasa disayang :))
Ibu-ibu RT @fibraarizka @tiihratiih @fiddeliadumroh @cindyherin 👭👭 #girls #bestfriends #instagram
